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Style and Grace: Jackie Kennedy Onassis

Jackie Kennedy

I turned five the year Jackie Kennedy became first lady.  I don’t remember any of the particulars of the inauguration, I was far too young to care about politics, but I do remember being totally and completely mesmerized by the new president’s wife.  She was beautiful and, even at an early age, I recognized that she exhibited an ageless sense of style and grace.  Although Jackie favored French designers, she quickly realized that as First Lady of the United States she needed to wear clothes by American designers. Staying true to her love of all things French, she found the perfect French-born American designer, Oleg Cassini who had emigrated to the United States in 1936.  Cassini both understood French design and technique and was a US citizen; no one could have fit her requirements better.  In fact, he designed a wardrobe for her consisting of over 300 dresses that were heavily influenced by Givenchy and other French designers.  Although they did not know it, they were creating the “Jackie look” that would become a classic.  Interestingly, some of outfits that Jackie became famous for were actually designed so the clothes would be more photogenic.  His use of  coat pockets and large buttons for the camera spread throughout the fashion world.  Although many of Cassini’s designs were simple A-line dresses that were sleeveless or had three-quarter length sleeves, it was his clean lines and his choice of luxurious fabrics that took Jackie’s own innate sense of classic style to a different level.

Jackie understood her imperfections (large hands and a square face) and knew how to play up her assets (wide-set eyes and a big smile).  According to ”What Would Jackie Do?” (Shelly Branch and Sue Callaway, 2006) she favored: Chanel jackets, A-line skirts, brooches, double-faced cashmere and silk satin, single-color schemes, and the neutral hue, “greige”, a cross between gray and beige.  She wore boat and V-necks, few furs, and would blend orange and pink!” Jewelry was never overdone — a watch, a pair of earrings, and perhaps a necklace.  The advantage to not overdoing it was that each piece she wore  looked special.  Notice the pictures above, the necklace or the sunglasses or the earrings, they all stand out, but none of the pieces take away from Jackie.  She wore her jewelry, it did not wear her.

Another interesting thing about Jackie was her thirst for knowledge.  She enjoyed history, languages, literature and art.  Her work on refurbishing the White House as well as her fight to save the Grand Central Terminal in NYC was born out of her love of history and her desire to leave something for future generations.  Regarding Grand Central Station, Jackie once said, ““A big corporation shouldn’t be able to destroy a building that has meant so much to so many for so many generations. If Grand Central Station goes, all of the landmarks in this country will go as well. If that happens, we’ll live in a world of steel and glass. This is … an issue that represents all issues.” She knew the importance of future generations having a link to the past.

Finally, Jackie was above all a lady.  She had impeccable manners; she knew when to speak and when to keep her opinions to herself.  She learned early that if you speak less often and know of what you speak, people will listen to what you have to say.  It seems to have worked, we’re still listening (and learning), Jackie.

The Classic Woman’s Lessons Learned from Jackie

  • Wear the latest trends, but don’t let them overpower you.
  • Accentuate your assets, downplay your imperfections.
  • Buy quality clothing.
  • Think minimalist when it comes to jewelry.
  • Continue to learn.
  • Think before you speak.  It’s totally alright to speak your mind, just know when to do it.

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A Peak Inside a Classic Woman’s Suitcase

Vacation season is just around the corner, and traveling is one of the things that a classic woman does best.  Vacations are not only a time to “get away from it all” but a chance to learn and explore by embarking on new experiences.  Although a classic woman does want to dress comfortably while on vacation, she does not want to sacrifice quality for comfort.  As a discerning shopper, she demands the best of both worlds and will settle for nothing less.  Knowing that down-time is crucial for a successful life, she plans her vacation accordingly and, consequently, prepares a travel wardrobe that is versatile, easy to care for and easy to pack. Of course the climate to which she is going and her particular agenda — the beach, a destination wedding, a cruise, or a series of Broadway plays — all determine whether her wardrobe will be more casual in nature or more dressy.  However, the criteria for the garments she chooses is the same — they must be high in craftsmanship and timeless in design.   In order to capitalize on getting the most wear out of the fewest number of clothes, the classic woman chooses a color family with which to build her travel wardrobe around,  thus allowing her the flexibility to mix-and-match pieces. Regardless of the destination, her suitcase will likely be packed with the following items:

  1. slacks (light weight for warmer weather)
  2. jeans  (white for warmer climates)
  3. knee length shorts/capris
  4. skirt
  5. polo shirts
  6. shirt
  7. t-shirts/sleeveless tops
  8. walking shoes
  9. dinner dress
  10. simple jersey dresses
  11. heels
  12. swim suit
  13. coverup
  14. sandals
  15. flip-flops for by the pool
  16. cashmere wrap for cooler evening
  17. lingerie
  18. robe
  19. slippers
  20. shower slippers
  21. undergarments: bras, pantie/thongs, spandex
  22. jewelry
  23. big scarf
  24. wide-brimmed hat

 

Classic Woman’s Suitcase

Primary Color:  Blue

Destination:  Coast

Itinerary:  Sight-seeing, Shopping, Swimming, and Dining at Local Restaurants

A Peek Inside a Classic Woman's Suitcase

 

 



Kate Middleton, the Duchess of Cambridge: A Classic Woman in the Making

During the nine years that Kate Middleton has been in the public eye, she has gone from being known as “Waity Katie” to Catherine, the Duchess of Cambridge, and from dressing like the college co-ed she once was to becoming the style icon she was meant to be.  The refreshing thing about Kate’s fashion evolution is that during her transformation she has stayed true to herself.  She dares to wear off-the-rack High Street clothes one day and Couture the next and all the while seemingly never missing a beat.   She truly exemplifies how women in their twenties and thirties can develop a fashion sense that is both contemporary and classic without sacrificing their individual personalities.  As Anne Hathaway put it during an interview with USA Today, “I’m just very grateful to Kate Middleton for making looking appropriate really fun again”.

Kate has learned over the years the aesthetic value of clothes that are sleek and simple — they have a certain feeling of timelessness to them. Kate also realizes that the quality of a garment is not dependent upon the price. This has allowed her to skillfully maneuver between the two worlds of High Street and Couture in a way that no Royal has done before her.  The result is a  professional wardrobe for the working woman that is never dowdy or boring and always reflects a bit of  her own personality.

While visiting riot damaged Birmingham, Kate wore a wool-crepe skirt and a silk georgette blouse by Alexander McQueen. The entire ensemble with its military look and streamlined skirt exudes professionalism while the slit in the skirt adds personality.

On the day that she and Prince William announced their engagement, she wore an electric blue silk wrap dress by Issa.  Drawing subtle attention to her waistline, the dress with its fabulous drape, for which Issa is known, included a ruched neckline that kept the v-neckline from appearing too revealing.
For the official engagement picture, Kate wore a white dress by Reiss that featured a paneled waist band and side pockets with an overlay on the front skirt.  Interestingly, she bought the dress two years prior to wearing it for this photograph.

Recently, during the Queen’s Diamond Jubilee Tour, Kate wore a classic jade jacket and skirt by LKBennett. She gave the outfit a personality infusion by cinching the jacket at the already nipped waistline with a black belt.  The result:  a hint of the currently trendy peplum look.

Even when dressing casually in jeans, she achieved a sophisticated look on their Canadian Tour by pairing them with a ruffled white shirt, tucked in to accentuate her waist and curves, navy blazer and espadrilles.  Wearing the same pair of jeans again on their Tour, she topped it with a Burberry shirt and wore Sebago Bala loafers giving the ensemble a put-together, yet relaxed look.

In keeping with her professional image, Kate always wears tights, usually nude in color, with her dresses and suits and, more often than not, a pair of pumps. She also keeps her hemlines modest, but adds interest by wearing fabrics that drape and move with her as well as an occasional slit on the side to reveal a bit more leg.  When it comes to make-up, Kate favors a natural look.  She draws attention to her eyes by lining them and wearing a neutral gloss on her lips.
LESSONS LEARNED FROM KATE:
1.  Keep the lines simple.
2.  Keep the look unified from head to toe.
3.  Keep it modest, but not boring.
4.  Pay attention to the details: Tights and Pumps add an element of sophistication.
5.  Buy quality garments that can be mixed and matched with other pieces.
6.  Keep it natural:  Wear clothes that are a reflection of who you are.
For more Lessons Learned from Kate, read What a Classic Woman Wears to Sporting Events

The Classic Woman and the Rules of Engagement

With the return of Spring and Summer comes a host of social occasions for the classic woman:  bridal showers, weddings, graduations, barbeques … the list goes on. The classic woman knows that being the perfect guest requires an adherence to certain social rules.

1.  Arrive on time; do not be late.  Also, never arrive more than a few minutes early, your host may be busy with last minute details and not quite ready for receiving guests.

2  Upon arriving at the social function, the first order of business is to find the host, greet them  and present them with a gift  such as a bottle of wine, a bouquet of flowers, or a box of chocolates.

3. Start conversations with others in attendance.  Breaking the Ice is always a little awkward, just remember to ask questions of the other person and keep the subject matter light and cheerful.   Never, never, divulge too many personal details to a total stranger.  The goal in mingling is to meet new people and make new connections; it is never a substitute for a therapy session.

4.  Avoid stepping into a conversation that is already taking place, rather look for someone who is not talking to anyone and start there.

5.  When talking to people, always look them in the eyes.  Even if you have a million other things on your mind, make them feel that they are the most important person in the room at that moment.  Ask the other person questions and wait for him to answer.  After he is finished, add your own thoughts, always being careful not to hijack the conversation.  Remember, good conversation is like a game of ping pong, each person must have a turn to talk and then to listen.

6.  Although considered a bit old-fashioned, it is still a good idea to avoid discussing sex, politics, and religion unless you are quite familiar with the other person’s viewpoints.  Not everyone is comfortable with a lively debate and a party atmosphere is not always the best place for that discussion.  Instead, start the conversation by asking general questions.  Hopefully, you will hear a response that will trigger  a mutually shared interest; if not, try talking a little bit about yourself or something you have done and let the conversation branch off with some questions from that angle.

7.  Additional conversation pitfalls:

  • Letting people know that you are richer than they are.
  • Bragging.  Boasting.
  • Talking about yourself nonstop.
  • Be sensitive.  For example, if you pick up on the fact that someone may be struggling financially, do not talk about how you throw money around and never blink an eye.

8.  Barbara Walters’, in her book How to Talk With Anybody About Practically Anything (1970), states: “Deep breaths are very helpful at shallow parties.”

9.  Always inform your host that you are leaving and thank them for a wonderful time.

10.  Although not required, sending a thank you note after attending the party is always a lovely gesture and, in today’s social environment, often quite unexpected.  Your thoughtfulness will neither go unnoticed nor unappreciated.

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